I used to have a friend who I had known since he left his mother’s womb, much like Shelby is to Mel. Unfortunately, we don’t speak anymore. Since then, I’ve had friends come and go–as they all do as we grow. Sometimes it was hard, and sometimes it was easier than expected. But throughout all of those tough times, I have had one friend who has constantly stood by my side no matter what comes my way, her way or our way. Melody has been that friend since we were 10 years old. It’s hard to believe that sometimes. I will have known her for 14 years by fall. (I wish I had pictures of us from our fifth grade days.)
Melody’s seen me go through so much, and I’ve been by her side through her worst. It’s nice to know that we have each other and can rely on each other. We may not have a lot of photographs from that time (or maybe she’s just hoarding them), but at least we have these memories from high school until college that carry us through. They are probably our golden years in our friendship, anyway. Hopefully we’ll be saying that about each new decade as it comes, though.
What I do know about Melody: Melody has no shame in anything she likes, and that’s something I’ve always admired. Sometimes, I feel as if I spend too much time worrying and too much time trying to decide if what I’m doing is something I should say I am proud of. She doesn’t care.
We share a love of writing and reading and both love editing–those passions have brought us closer over time.
Her favorite color is red, and always has been–or rather she does love that color in combination with black–but now she seems to have fallen more for greens and purples–which she looks great in all. She has always lived a “villain appreciation life,” and we both often find ourselves loving black comedies, villains, satire and other dark humor more so than anything else.
She has one of the biggest hearts you will ever meet, and when she decides she cares for someone or something, she cares about them with all of her might. I have only had the privilege of seeing her cry on a few occasions, whereas she has seen me do it even more. And I say “privilege” not because I wish for her to endure any sort of pain, but because I have been there and have carried her when she has felt her most vulnerable and had to bear all she had. Even with a heart as big as hers, it can only carry so much at a time. She has a loud laugh and big smile–and they’re both infectious. The more I’m around her, the louder my laugh becomes.
1. How did we meet? I met this loser in Mrs. Wimberley’s 5th grade class. To be fair, it was the Pokemon/DBZ/Sailor Moon era, so pretty much everyone in our class was a loser, but this loser in particular always talked to me when I screamed at her about the latest episodes or whatnot. Granted, her responses were kind of noncommittal, but that only encouraged me further to claim her as my friend. Basically, I wanted to one day say, “This is my Jennifer. There are many like her, but this one is mine.” (Basically, this is us in a nutshell: two losers just loving nerdy things together. She used to whisper-yell from across the class, “Hey Jennifer! Did you see Dragonball Z last night? … It was awesome wasn’t it?” That has defined us ever since.)
2. What is your favorite memory of us? Oh my God! How am I supposed to pin one down?! (Laughs for awhile.) I have SO many favorite memories of us together that it’s hard to choose just one, especially since with varying clarity, they always comprise of us laughing hysterically at each other for all the stupid shit we do and say. One moment that sums that up perfectly—and explains why we get along so well as friends—was when we were in our early teens and trolling the shit out of a forum. We would go on boards where people were just being stupid as hell and would just mess with them until we got banned. At one point, Jennifer found keyboard art of a penis and posted it in the Keyboard Art Board—I know, right? Why was that even a topic of discussion, though?—and was like, “See, guys! It’s a carrot!” And these twelve-year-olds were all, “Yeah!!!111 iT’S totally a carrot!!!!111oneoneone!” And finally we got banned. Both of us. Because we acted so alike the moderators thought that we were just duplicate accounts of one person. Unsurprising that they thought that way, because, as Jennifer’s dad often says, we share one brain. Like just the one brain. Meaning between us, there is only a half a brain. Yeah. (For even more clarity, this was way before “trolling” was a term most people knew on the internet. We had no idea we were trolling. And I’m very sorry to the moderators of that forum. That was a horrible thing to do, even if it is still hilarious.)
3. What is your favorite thing about me? I’m trying to choose one of her traits that isn’t similar to my own, because doing so would seem oddly self-serving. But one thing I’ve always admired about Jennifer is her willingness to speak her mind and to speak honestly about what she’s feeling. She may not do it all the time, because she wants to spare people’s feelings, but she does it enough to where she always stays true to herself and you always know where you stand with her. (Unless you’re an unobservant idiot. It’s happened.) It’s something that I’ve tried to model in my own way of dealing with people, since I can be incredibly shy and infuriatingly non-confrontational. And I feel like I’ve gotten better just by being around her. Another thing that I love about her is her luscious locks of love that I’ve been lusting after for years. But she knows about that.
4. Where do you see us in 20 years? Well, in 20 years, insta-travel will have been firmly established, because the world finally got its shit together and funded it, and what’s more, it’ll be affordable for middle class working folks, because let’s face it, at this rate, I’m gonna be poor forever. And once that happens—sooner than 20 years from now, in fact—I will have insta-traveled to Jennifer’s place, broke down her door, and sat firmly in her lap, and not moved. Like ever. (She also wanted to attach this photo to her answer.)
5. If you were an animal, what would you be and why? (Squeals.) I’VE BEEN WAILING FOR A THOUSAND YEARS I’D EITHER BE A PENGUIN BECAUSE OH GAWD AND I CAN COAST AROUND ON MY BELLIE OR I’D BE A RED PANDA BECAUSE THEY ARE GOD-TIER CUTE BUT ALSO HELLA DUMB LIKE HELLA DUMB FOR REAL OR I’D BE A WOLF BECAUSE OH~~~ MYSTERIOUS AND DEADLY PREDATOR OOOHH~~~ OR FUCK IT I’D BE A DRAGON BECAUSE DRAGONS ARE THE BOSSIEST OF THE BOSS AND I’M ACTUALLY MALEFICENT IN DISGUISE SO SURPRISE IT FITS
That’s my best friend, folks.